BY JAWAD YAQUB
Narcissus and the Child
Drawing on over 200 peer-reviewed sources, this book examines the science behind narcissistic personality disorder—from brain chemistry to behavioral patterns—while providing practical guidance for survivors.
A rigorous, evidence-based approach to understanding narcissism
Academic Sources
Peer-reviewed research from psychology, neuroscience, and psychiatry.
Book Chapters
Comprehensive coverage from neuroscience to recovery.
Glossary Terms
Key concepts explained in accessible language.
Years Research
Decades of scientific literature synthesized.
Reviews
Reader Testimonials
INSIDE THE BOOK
Explore Key Topics
Gaslighting
Understand gaslighting—the psychological manipulation tactic narcissists use to make you question your own reality, memory, and perceptions.
6 FAQs answered
Can Narcissists Change?
The most-searched question about narcissism answered honestly: Can narcissists change? Explore what research shows about NPD treatment and the conditions required for genuine change.
6 FAQs answered
Covert Narcissist
Learn to identify the covert narcissist—the subtle, vulnerable type of narcissism that's harder to spot but equally destructive in relationships.
6 FAQs answered
Narcissistic Mother
Understand the impact of having a narcissistic mother, recognize the signs, and learn how adult children can heal from maternal narcissistic abuse.
6 FAQs answered
Trauma Bonding
Understand trauma bonding—the powerful psychological attachment that forms through cycles of abuse and intermittent reinforcement, making it so hard to leave a narcissist.
6 FAQs answered
Grey Rock Method
Learn the Grey Rock method—a technique for dealing with narcissists when no contact isn't possible. Become boring, unresponsive, and uninteresting to protect yourself.
6 FAQs answered
Signs of Narcissism
Learn the key signs of narcissistic personality disorder—from grandiosity and lack of empathy to manipulation tactics and rage responses.
6 FAQs answered
Love Bombing
Recognize love bombing—the overwhelming attention and affection narcissists use to hook victims before the abuse begins. Learn the warning signs and how to protect yourself.
6 FAQs answered
Flying Monkeys
Understand flying monkeys—the people narcissists recruit to do their bidding, spread gossip, and pressure victims on their behalf.
6 FAQs answered
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
Learn about the journey of recovering from narcissistic abuse—from recognizing what happened to rebuilding your sense of self and creating healthy relationships.
6 FAQs answered
Hoovering
Recognize hoovering—the narcissist's attempts to pull you back into the relationship after discard or when you try to leave. Learn why it happens and how to resist.
6 FAQs answered
No Contact
Learn why no contact is essential for recovering from narcissistic abuse, how to implement it effectively, and how to handle the challenges that arise.
6 FAQs answered
Narcissist in the Workplace
Learn to identify and cope with narcissists at work—from narcissistic bosses to toxic colleagues—while protecting your career and mental health.
6 FAQs answered
Grandiose vs Vulnerable Narcissism
Understand the two main types of narcissism—grandiose (overt) and vulnerable (covert)—their differences, similarities, and how they manifest in relationships.
6 FAQs answered
Narcissistic Supply
Understand narcissistic supply—the attention, admiration, and emotional reactions that narcissists need to survive. Learn why you were targeted and how to cut off supply.
6 FAQs answered
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN
A Journey Through Understanding
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN
A Journey Through Understanding
01
The Neuroscience
How narcissism manifests in brain structure, neural pathways, and neurochemistry—the biological reality behind the behavior.
02
The Origins
Understanding what causes narcissistic personality disorder, from attachment trauma to developmental disruption.
03
The Patterns
Recognizing the behavioral hallmarks: gaslighting, love bombing, devaluation, and the cycles of narcissistic abuse.
04
The Impact
How narcissistic abuse affects survivors neurologically, psychologically, and relationally.
05
The Recovery
Evidence-based pathways to healing, from no-contact strategies to trauma-informed therapeutic approaches.
Start Your Journey to Understanding
Whether you're a survivor seeking answers, a professional expanding your knowledge, or someone who wants to understand narcissism at a deeper level—this book is your comprehensive guide.