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The Narcissism Epidemic: Living in the Age of Entitlement

Twenge, J., & Campbell, W. (2009)

APA Citation

Twenge, J., & Campbell, W. (2009). The Narcissism Epidemic: Living in the Age of Entitlement. Atria Books.

Summary

Psychologists Jean Twenge and W. Keith Campbell document rising narcissism as a cultural phenomenon. Using data from the Narcissistic Personality Inventory administered to thousands of college students over decades, they show increases in narcissistic traits and explore cultural factors driving this trend—parenting styles emphasizing self-esteem over achievement, social media, celebrity culture, and easy credit enabling grandiose lifestyles. The book argues narcissism has become "epidemic," with implications for relationships, education, and society.

Why This Matters for Survivors

This research contextualizes individual narcissists within broader cultural trends. The narcissist who harmed you didn't emerge in a vacuum—they were shaped by a culture increasingly promoting self-focus, entitlement, and image over substance. Understanding cultural narcissism helps explain why narcissistic individuals seem more common and why certain behaviors are normalized. It's not just personal pathology but cultural environment.

What This Research Establishes

Narcissistic traits have increased. Data shows measurable increases in narcissistic traits among American young adults over decades. Whether this constitutes an “epidemic” is debated, but the trend is documented.

Cultural factors contribute. Parenting styles, education practices, media, and economic systems all appear to influence narcissism levels. Individual psychology exists within cultural context.

Self-esteem without substance is problematic. Promoting feeling special without corresponding accomplishment may contribute to entitlement rather than genuine confidence.

Technology provides new platforms. Social media didn’t create narcissism but provides unprecedented tools for narcissistic self-presentation and validation-seeking.

Why This Matters for Survivors

The narcissist emerged from culture. The individual who harmed you developed within a culture that often validates narcissistic behavior—the entitlement, the self-promotion, the prioritizing image over substance.

You’re not imagining increased narcissism. If narcissistic behavior seems more common, research supports this perception. Cultural trends have amplified narcissistic traits in the population.

Understanding the environment. The narcissist’s behavior may have been reinforced by others, validated by cultural messages, and amplified by technology. This contextualizes (without excusing) their development.

Why others don’t see it. In a culture that normalizes self-focus and entitlement, the narcissist’s behavior may seem less aberrant to others. Understanding cultural context explains why your concerns weren’t always validated.

Clinical Implications

Consider cultural context. Individual pathology develops within cultural environment. Assessment should consider how cultural factors may have shaped narcissistic development.

Address cultural messages. Patients may have internalized cultural messages promoting narcissism. Therapy can examine these critically.

Validate survivors’ perceptions. When patients note that narcissistic behavior seems common or normalized, research supports this perception.

Provide counter-messages. In a culture promoting self-focus, therapy can emphasize connection, genuine self-assessment, and achievement-based esteem.

How This Research Is Used in the Book

Twenge and Campbell’s cultural analysis appears in chapters on social context:

“Jean Twenge and Keith Campbell document what many have sensed: narcissism has become ‘epidemic.’ Research shows increasing narcissistic traits across generations, amplified by parenting emphasizing ‘special’ over capable, education emphasizing self-esteem over achievement, and social media providing perfect platforms for self-presentation. The narcissist who harmed you didn’t emerge in a vacuum—they were shaped by a culture increasingly validating self-focus, entitlement, and image over substance. This doesn’t excuse them but helps explain the environment that cultivated their pathology.”

Historical Context

Published in 2009, this book synthesized years of research on rising narcissism. It appeared as concerns about helicopter parenting, grade inflation, and social media were growing. The “epidemic” framing proved controversial—some questioned whether trends represented genuine personality change versus cultural shifts in self-presentation—but drew widespread attention to cultural dimensions of narcissism.

The book influenced discussion of parenting, education, and technology’s psychological effects. Its thesis—that narcissism is partly a cultural product—has implications for both understanding individual narcissists and considering societal interventions.

Further Reading

  • Twenge, J.M. (2017). iGen: Why Today’s Super-Connected Kids Are Growing Up Less Rebellious, More Tolerant, Less Happy—and Completely Unprepared for Adulthood. Atria Books.
  • Campbell, W.K., & Miller, J.D. (2011). The Handbook of Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Wiley.
  • Lasch, C. (1979). The Culture of Narcissism. Norton.
  • Trzesniewski, K.H., et al. (2008). Do today’s young people really think they are so extraordinary? Psychological Science, 19(2), 181-188.

About the Author

Jean M. Twenge, PhD is Professor of Psychology at San Diego State University and a leading researcher on generational differences. Her work on rising narcissism and changing cultural values has been influential and controversial.

W. Keith Campbell, PhD is Professor of Psychology at the University of Georgia and one of the world's leading researchers on narcissism. He developed research on narcissism in relationships and has studied narcissism across cultures.

Historical Context

Published in 2009, this book synthesized years of data showing increasing narcissism among American young adults. It appeared during debates about helicopter parenting, self-esteem movements in education, and emerging concerns about social media. The "epidemic" framing was controversial but drew attention to cultural dimensions of narcissism.

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Related Terms

Glossary

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Cultural Narcissism

The presence of narcissistic values and traits at a societal level—including excessive individualism, obsession with image and status, diminished empathy, and entitlement. A cultural context that may foster and reward individual narcissism.

clinical

Entitlement

The narcissist's belief that they deserve special treatment, privileges, and exemption from rules that apply to others.

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